Friday, June 20, 2008

Following article from Extreme Theology site


Suffering is not a Sin

Suffering is not a sin. The devil would try to tempt us otherwise. Remember how it was with Job. His three friends (then four), all poor theologians, tried to connect the dots between Job's suffering and his sin. The same temptation comes to us when we thing that a Christian must always be happy and cheerful, or when we imagine that there is some sort of shame in suffering and trouble.

There is a type of “Billboard Christianity” where everyone is smiling and successful, healthy and happy. This plastic faith understands Jesus as spiritual “Botox”, and then if you are sad or depressed it is because your faith is not strong enough. In fact, we hear this type of thing from the television preachers. “God wants you,” they say, “to be healthy, wealthy and wise.” And if you are not, you must be under God's curse or the control of the devil and so forth and so on. As if we are Christian robots with these two facial expressions: happy and ecstatic. I know that this false teaching hasn't made its way among us, but perhaps there is even in our midst a shame in our suffering, a thought (even if we haven't thought about it in these words) that our suffering is a sin.

This is simply not the case. If suffering was a sin, then Jesus would have committed sin. Who, after all, suffered more than our Lord Jesus in His cross? On the cross He tasted God's wrath, knew the depths of the affliction of hell. Jesus suffered. He did not sin.

And Jesus was not alone in His suffering. As Christians we share in the Lord's suffering. Rather than being sin, suffering is part and parcel of the Christian life.

When Jesus asked if anyone would follow Him He didn't say, “If any would be My disciple, let Him take up His victorious life and follow Me.” No. Jesus bids us take us “take up your cross and follow Me.” [Matthew 16:24] Jesus has warned us that in this world we will have trouble. “I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world.” [John 16:33]

This trouble and tribulation comes from the world, the flesh and the devil, the three constant enemies of the Lord and His church. It was this way from the beginning, and will be this way until the Lord returns, the Lord's people suffer. From Abel to Noah to Joseph and Moses and David and all the prophets. In fact, when you read Hebrews 11, a chapter often called “The Hall of Faith”, you find a list of the Old Testament faithful, which is also a list of their suffering.

In the New Testament it is the same way. Jesus says, “If the world hates you, know that it has hated me before it hated you. If you were of the world, the world would love you as its own; but because you are not of the world, but I chose you out of the world, therefore the world hates you.” [John 15:18-19] The apostle's suffered because of the name of Jesus, and far from considering this to be sin, they thought it pure joy. “Then they left the presence of the council, rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer dishonor for the name [of Jesus].” [Acts 5:41]

St. Paul encourages the church to “rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.” [Romans 5:3-5]

When St. Peter tells us to follow the example of our Jesus, he instructs us to be like Jesus in His suffering. This is incredible. Rather that showing us Jesus as an example of life, of victory, of overcoming trouble or any such thing, Jesus is our example in suffering. “For what credit is it if, when you sin and are beaten for it, you endure? But if when you do good and suffer for it you endure, this is a gracious thing in the sight of God. For to this you have been called, because Christ also suffered for you, leaving you an example, so that you might follow in his steps.” [1 Peter 2:20-21]

Far from being a sin, suffering is a mark of being Christian. The holy cross is a mark of the church. In this life we are traveling through a vale of tears, the valley of the shadow of death, but the Lord is with us in our suffering. He knows what it's like. And He comes to us with His comforting promises that He will never leave or forsake us [Hebrews 13:5], that He will be with us always, even to the end of the age [Matthew 28:20]. He promises that while our suffering will be for a while, His comfort and life and salvation will last forever.

For I consider that the sufferings of this present time are not worth comparing with the glory that is to be revealed to us. [Romans 8:18]

INJ,
Pastor Bryan Wolfmueller

Monday, May 26, 2008




Fun at a female tea party, celebrating femininity.





Grocery store FUN!! Mickey Mouse is watching me!






Thursday, May 15, 2008


We had a blast going to the hotel Craig has worked part time for a lovely dinner celebrating Grace's 11th birthday. Could we please FREEZE frame you now, Grace?? Thanks for being a HUGE blessing to us.
Thank you, Lord, for sending her to us for this time.





Do you like margaritas? This was the BEST I have ever had!!!


My Man!!!







The prettiest 11 year old!


Wednesday, May 14, 2008

Grace Kelsey celebrates birthday #11!!!
Happy Birthday DEAR GRACE!!!

Grace opens her gifts as we celebrate with Crispy Cream. She loves cold Mocha, so we gave her one for her special day.

She was born around 7pm at home. The doctor, Dr. Dawn Meisner, was great! Grace was one of the 3 births at home where the doctor was actually present! She was our 3rd home birth, and all went extremely well. My dad, who had been released from the hospital earlier that day, cut the cord. That was a very wonderful memory for us.


During the 9 month wait for Grace, I was totally convinced that Grace was a BOY! We were blessed with 3 boys already, plus 1 girl. She kicked me so hard and consistantly, that I was certain she was a boy. When she was finally born, my mother announced joyfully, "Julie, you have a girl!"

At that point, we happily introduced her as "Grace Kelsey" and she was a beautiful baby, weighing 8.8 lbs. We were thrilled Kathryn would have a same gender side kick!
Also, because the doctor had missed Kathryn's birth, as well as Graham's, they did not charge us AT ALL for Grace's birth! I think we only paid for lab work. Wow, what a blessing!
Homefirst, Chicago, IL. A group of FANTASTIC home birth doctors.


Grace is a huge blessing and gift to our family! She is always ready to assist in watching Truman, making sure he is safe. She shares her room with Joelle, her younger sister by 4.5 years , helping her keep it clean and picked up.


Grace loves F*A*S*H*I*O*N* !!!!!
We call her the FASHION GIRL! She looks adorable in all her fun outfits, and has loved to wear hats. We gave her a lovely suede jacket from Limited Too, a special find at my favorite resale store!


Joelle gave her some special lip balm, a large assortment! Kathryn gave her some body lotion, glitter, lip gloss, nail polish, etc. Just what every girl needs to look FAB!
Tonight Craig and I will take just her out for a special dinner downtown. Will post more shots of that special occasion!
We love you Grace, and are so thankful God sent you to our house!!!

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Matthew 7:13, 14
Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.
1 John 1:9
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

"...this objection--that our doctrine is too strict, we made the way of heaven too narrow--is in truth the original objection (as it was almost the only one for sometime) and is secretly at the bottom of a thousand more, which appear in various forms.
The church today, listening to the world, is afraid of being called narrow, afraid that those who are educated and political will dismiss the church because of the narrow way that the Savior proclaimed. So, to avoid being called narrow or exclusivistic, many try to open up the way a little bit that Jesus declared by denying the truth of the Scriptures, the doctrines of the Scriptures, making them more palatable for the pride of man, or denying the holy walk of life unto which the Lord called His disciples."
-Ian Murray, "Evangelicalism Divided"

Friday, April 18, 2008

I feel very blessed to have been given the above chitlin's as a gift! Those people you are looking are very dear to me. Really, we were very surprised when God sent Truman to us, as He knew by then, what kind of parents we were. We totally do not deserve them, and know we do not! They are wonderful and we pray for daily guidance to help nurture them in the admonition of the Lord. Please Lord, continue to direct us in wisdom and discernment!

We are continually amazed by the creation God gives us, including the unique and different personalities we have in our family. Each one is as different as can be, and it is really cool. I love it! Yes, sometimes a bit frustrating, but hopefully God can teach us to get along and love one another. He is a very patient and good God.
Micah 6:8
He has showed thee, O man, what is good, and what the Lord requireth of thee: surely to do justly, and to love mercy, and to humble thyself, to walk with thy God.


Tuesday, March 25, 2008

Easter Egg Hunt March 2008, which we all know has nothing to do with the Resurrection! It was fun watching the kids casing after good ol' chocolate eggs. I did this every year as a kid and still remember it fondly.







































































March 1, 2008






Vernon Hills, IL
Craig's mom plus Lauryl and Brittany













The boys with their Uncle Jack.
They all love him!